Key Takeaways:
- People-first leadership: Servant leaders focus on support and empowerment, not control.
- Best in trust-driven teams: It works well in collaborative, diverse, or Agile environments.
- Built on daily habits: Actions like asking how to help and coaching define this style.
- Proven results: Servant-led teams show higher engagement and lower turnover.
- Remote-ready: With the right tools, this approach strengthens hybrid team connection.
Why Teams Fail Without Servant Leadership
A team is missing deadlines. Morale is low. A manager keeps pushing for results but is too busy to notice that people are overwhelmed. No one speaks up. Frustration builds, and the pressure only increases. Eventually, burnout hits. The team falls further behind.
Now imagine the same team, but with a different approach. The leader listens, clears roadblocks, and builds trust. Instead of collapsing under pressure, the team bounces back. They become stronger and more motivated.
Servant leadership makes all the difference. It isn’t about being soft or avoiding hard decisions. It’s about building the conditions for teams to perform at their best.
Let’s look at how servant leadership works, why it drives better results, and how you can bring it into your leadership practice.
Servant Leadership Explained: What It Is and What It’s Not
Despite the name, servant leadership isn’t about taking orders from your team. Instead of calling the shots from above, servant leaders stay close to the team. They listen, support, and help remove obstacles so others can do their best work.
Core values that define servant leadership:
- Empathy: Understanding team members’ feelings and perspectives
- Listening: Making space for input before acting
- Empowerment: Giving people ownership over their work
- Stewardship: Acting in service of the team’s long-term success
- Community-building: Creating a sense of shared purpose and belonging

How servant leadership differs from other approaches:
Unlike other leadership styles that emphasize control or performance metrics, servant leadership focuses on people first. Here’s how it compares to more traditional models:
- Transformational leaders aim to inspire with big-picture vision
- Transactional leaders rely on structure and rewards to drive performance
- Authoritarian leaders maintain control through top-down decision-making
Servant leadership, by contrast, builds performance through empathy, shared ownership, and consistent support.
Here is what that looks like in action.
A VP notices a team lagging. Instead of demanding faster results, she asks what is blocking them and helps clear the way. That shift not only helps the team catch up, but it also prevents burnout and builds trust.
Servant leadership works best when leaders are supported with the right training and tools to apply it consistently, especially in fast-paced or high-growth environments.
A common myth is that servant leaders avoid tough calls. The truth is they set high standards, but they bring people with them instead of pushing past them. They do this through consistent actions and everyday choices that build trust and accountability. These behaviors are what make servant leadership both practical and effective.
Key Behaviors of Effective Servant Leaders
Servant leadership sounds simple, but it takes real practice. It shows up in everyday choices, especially when things get hard. Whether you’re coaching frontline managers or refining your style, the following behaviors help anchor what servant leadership looks like day to day.
Behaviors associated with servant leadership include:
- Ask, “How can I help?” instead of “Why is this late?”
- Recognize effort and progress, not just final results
- Listen fully before offering advice
- Share decision-making power and delegate thoughtfully
- Coach team members toward growth, not just task completion
Common misconceptions about servant leadership include:
- Avoiding feedback in the name of “being nice”
- Fixing everything for the team
- Confusing helpfulness with doing someone’s job
- Agreeing to every request to avoid discomfort
These behaviors are not just helpful; they become second nature when leaders commit to them daily. When teams start to respond with trust, ownership, and initiative, it becomes easier to decide when to lean in, step back, or shift your approach.
When to Use Servant Leadership (And When Not To)
No leadership style works in every situation. Servant leadership is instrumental in environments that depend on collaboration, team input, and a foundation of trust. It helps unlock innovation and growth, especially when teams are diverse or recovering from change. In more rigid or fast-moving situations, it may need to be balanced with a more direct approach.
Best-fit environments:
- Agile or cross-functional teams
- Innovation-focused departments
- Diverse teams that need psychological safety
- Teams recovering from change or dysfunction
Quick guide to choosing your leadership stance:
- High stakes and time pressure: Take charge briefly, then regroup
- Complex problem needing broad input: Use servant leadership to gather insight
- Teams with learning goals: Lean fully into coaching and support
Picture a leader in a fast-moving crisis. They take charge, make the call, and stabilize the situation. Later, they meet with the team to reflect, learn, and regroup. That switch shows strength, not contradiction.
When leaders choose their style based on context, not ego, they build credibility and trust. Many leadership teams find that combining servant leadership with goal-tracking tools like Objectives and Key Results (OKRs) or Responsible, Accountable, Consulted, Informed (RACI) charts helps to keep accountability strong while still creating a supportive environment.
How Servant Leadership Boosts Engagement and Innovation
Servant leadership may sound idealistic, but its impact is measurable. Teams led with empathy and support tend to be more productive, creative, and committed. These results come from leadership that sees people as the path to performance.
Key outcomes:
- Higher psychological safety
- Lower turnover and better retention
- More feedback and idea-sharing
- Greater resilience during change
Research across many industries shows that servant leadership improves team performance and encourages positive behaviors like collaboration, accountability, and initiative.
Compare the outcomes:
- Servant-led teams: Higher trust, better collaboration, and more openness to new ideas
- Traditional teams: Faster short-term delivery, but more burnout, turnover, and disengagement
Simple ROI example:
If turnover on a 10-person team drops from 20 percent to 10 percent, that means one fewer person leaving. At $15,000 per departure, that’s $15,000 saved annually on just that one change.
A traditional manager may speed things up by taking over, but this creates dependency. Servant leaders coach and delegate early so teams become self-sufficient.
One company saw these results firsthand. During a restructuring, only the servant-led department kept its full staff intact. Confidence in leadership stayed high and so did output.
Seeing these results is one thing; building the habits that create them is the next step.
How to Start Practicing Servant Leadership
You do not have to overhaul your leadership style overnight. Servant leadership starts with small, practical changes that shift team dynamics and build trust over time.
Tactics to try this week:
- Start meetings by asking, “What do you need from me?”
- Recognize effort publicly and redirect praise
- Use coaching questions instead of instructions
- Involve others in decisions
- Act visibly on team feedback
30-60-90-day roadmap:
Days 1–30: Focus on listening and asking better questions
Days 31–60: Clear roadblocks and delegate decisions
Days 61–90: Build feedback loops using quick check-ins and team sessions
Common concerns:
- “I’m expected to have all the answers.” → Create shared solutions
- “I feel like I’m losing control.” → Lead through influence, not force
- “We need results fast.” → Show how support drives performance
These kinds of shifts may seem small, but they create noticeable change over time. One new manager began every check-in with, “What is blocking you right now?” Within three months, the team reported more clarity, less stress, and better momentum, even as workloads increased.
The same habits apply in remote and hybrid settings, though they often require new tools and greater intentionality.
How to Practice Servant Leadership in Remote Teams
Remote and hybrid teams face unique leadership challenges. There is less informal connection, more reliance on tools, and a higher risk of team members feeling overlooked. Servant leadership helps bridge these gaps by emphasizing communication, support, and inclusion, even when face-to-face time is limited.
Common challenges:
- Less informal connection
- Harder to read tone and mood
- Risk of disconnection
- More effort to stay aligned
Tools should help people stay connected, feel included, and stay in the loop. It’s not just about convenience. It’s about making sure everyone feels part of the team.
Servant leadership solutions:
- Host virtual office hours
- Check in regularly with async tools
- Pair team members for mentorship
- Design inclusive meetings
Make the most of technology:
- Use platforms to increase visibility
- Recognize wins with digital shoutouts
- Gather feedback with async tools
- Track well-being using team data
Some of the most effective changes come from small shifts in how leaders communicate. In one remote team, video calls had become tiring and ineffective. Instead of forcing cameras back on, the leader introduced breakout chats and async updates. Engagement rose without pressure.
Of course, tools alone are not enough. Remote teams need systems that turn servant leadership into action. Without structure, good intentions often get lost.
Why Servant Leadership Builds Stronger Teams
Servant leadership isn’t about stepping aside. It’s about stepping in to help your team succeed without micromanaging or burning them out. The best leaders earn loyalty by showing up, supporting growth, and building shared success.
This style builds stronger relationships, deepens trust, and improves long-term results. When used with care and consistency, it turns everyday problems into opportunities for learning and growth.
For leadership teams ready to shift how they lead, Watermark Learning offers training designed to make servant leadership part of your culture. You’ll learn how to support, guide, and empower your teams to meet today’s challenges and tomorrow’s goals.
If you’re ready to lead with purpose, start by asking the question that transforms teams: “What can I do to help you succeed this week?”
Then take the next step.
Unlock expert leadership training from Watermark Learning and give your leadership team the support they need to thrive.
Jay Pugh, PhD
Dr. Jay Pugh is an award-winning leader, author, and facilitator with over 18 years of teaching and training experience. Currently serving as Head of Leadership Growth at Educate 360, he leads a robust team of external and internal facilitators who specialize in developing leadership capabilities within medium and large-scale businesses. His team works directly with business professionals, helping them become more effective leaders in their daily operations.
Dr. Pugh holds a Ph.D. in Instructional Management and Leadership, and his academic contributions include two published articles and a dissertation focusing on various educational topics. His extensive experience and academic background have established him as a respected voice in leadership development and educational management.